How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 03.07.2025 01:11
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
How does someone start doing urban exploration?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Who has experienced what they called a happy accident (bestiality)?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
How long before AI can deliver an over-the-shoulder shot of a face in a film?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
How would you feel if your girlfriend had dick pics on her phone?
What I need from you?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Procrastinates a lot.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
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Making more friends is a goal.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Ask yourself:
That's it for today.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Why are women attracted to ugly guys?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Do not set goals—set systems.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Does not procrastinate.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.